Man Whose Wife Eloped with Younger Lover Accepts Her Back: "Let's Not Judge Her"
- DJ Bossmaan has publicly forgiven his wife, Alam Santo, after her highly publicised elopement with a younger man, Mangar Mangar
- In a viral Facebook post, he urged the public not to judge her and confirmed she has since returned home
- Bossman explained that he won’t judge his wife because everyone makes mistakes and each deserves a chance to find clarity
Popular entertainer DJ Bossmaan has broken his silence following the dramatic elopement of his wife, Alam Santo Malek, with a younger man, Mangar Mangar Makeny.
Source: Facebook
In a heartfelt Facebook post, Bossmaan urged the public to give Alam space and time to reflect, emphasising his commitment to forgiveness and compassion.
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He admitted that it has been a difficult time for him and his wife of five years, adding that they have shared some of the best and hardest times of their lives.
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The saga gripped social media over the past week after Alam disappeared shortly before finalising a traditional marriage to Bossmaan.
Speculation mounted when a video surfaced online showing Alam declaring she had left of her own free will to escape a forced marriage and pursue her education.
That video quickly went viral and sparked heated debate online and offline.
Alam returned to Bossmaan
The drama escalated when authorities tracked down Alam and Mangar in a neighbouring town and arrested them, alongside Mangar's father, Makeny.
Alam was briefly held at the Criminal Investigations Department (CID) in Hai Cinema before being released and returned to her family.
Following her release, Alam reportedly pledged to return to her marital home with Bossmaan, a move confirmed by her father.
In a stern statement, he reaffirmed his recognition of Alam’s marriage to DJ Bossmaan and warned against further online defamation, saying,
“This matter should now be considered closed. We will not entertain any more public insults or threats.”
Source: Facebook
Bossmaan defends wife against judgment
In his post, DJ Bossmaan also addressed a widely circulated video believed to show Alam with Mangar, suggesting the clip was taken out of context and did not represent the full truth.
“People are quick to judge without knowing the whole story,” he wrote. “There’s more to this than what social media has seen. When the time is right, I’ll speak fully.”
Despite the public embarrassment and personal pain, Bossmaan’s message was surprisingly gracious.
He thanked supporters for their encouragement and prayers, but also called for calm and maturity.
“This is not a time for revenge or shaming. Alam is home. She’s safe. That’s what matters most to me.”
Bossmaan forgives Alam for eloping
While many await further developments, Bossmaan’s measured response appears to have diffused some of the anger and confusion surrounding the case.
For now, the DJ says he is focusing on healing and rebuilding trust, adding that he won’t judge his wife because everyone deserves a chance to find clarity and healing.
“We all make mistakes,” he concluded. “What defines us is how we rise after falling.”
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